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A Love Letter to MySpace

Digital social media platforms have become intrinsic to the experiences of growing up. In this feature, an 00s Emo teen reflects on her love affair with MySpace, from the hours spent coding to connecting with other young people across the world.

Text by Lisa der Weduwe | 18.02.2022

One dreary Saturday afternoon, my best friend and I snuck away from the adults at the party to speak to more interesting people online. As we sat down behind the family computer, she was keen to show me a new platform that everyone was using. I remember being thoroughly unimpressed - the white and navy blue page seemed just as boring as the adults downstairs. And whilst she excitedly helped me set up an account, in my head I swore never to use it. And for a long time I didn’t, but eventually even I got swept away in what would become the world’s biggest social media platform.

I was a MySpace teenager through and through, complete with a self-deprecating bio, rotation of garish backgrounds and endless stream of selfies shot from an unusually high angle. I would spend hours locked away in my bedroom perfecting my profile, scouring online forums for tips on basic HTML coding. As a self-confessed weirdo, MySpace allowed me to build a digital extension of my teenage bedroom, plastered with my likes and dislikes for the whole world to see.

Being a mid-00s Emo, it’s not surprising that I was obsessed with MySpace. If part of Subcultures is all about peacocking, MySpace was just as important as the local park. Emo, alongside other 00s music Subcultures such as Grime and Dubstep, were the first to make use of the internet. Internet forums, personal blogs and early social media profiles enabled us to connect and share music with people across the world. At the same time, we left the internet behind whenever we went out, our Sony Walkmans and Nokia 3310s not yet allowing us to carry it around with us. We were the transition to a digital world that is now so ubiquitous. 

"As a self-confessed weirdo, MySpace allowed me to build a digital extension of my teenage bedroom, plastered with my likes and dislikes for the whole world to see."

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Since then, the internet and social media platforms have become intrinsic to youth culture. Whilst me and my friends talked about IRL (In Real Life) meetups, these days it’s about AFK (Away From Keyboard) - a subtle shift that shows how our digital spheres are just as real as our physical ones. This shift has only become more pronounced after two years of lockdown, where our digital spaces for a brief period became our primary ones. In many ways the MySpace of 2005 was much closer to contemporary social media than Facebook or Bebo ever were - allowing you to be creative in constructing your online persona. 

It’s safe to say I felt a real pang of sadness when I heard MySpace accidentally deleted anything uploaded between 2003 and 2015, and with it a small part of my teenage history. But tucked away on my backup are four remnants of my MySpace era; spongebob myspace layout, pony myspace layout, weird head myspace layout, and intro notes myspace. Opening that final document I am faced with a pretty accurate description of my 16 year old self - some things haven’t really changed - but the final line reveals what drew so many of us to the platform; Let’s Talk =]. For my ‘goofy’, ‘weird’ and ‘pathetic’ self, MySpace opened up a new world of friends beyond the boundaries of my little town filled with normies. And for its myriad of issues, at its best social media helps us to connect. The question now is how we move forward with these platforms that have become so ubiquitous, in a way that inspires the positive side and doesn’t feed the pockets of Silicon Valley tech bros.

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<font color="red">Liza.</font><br />
Sixteen.<br />
11th grade. <br />
Goofy. <br />
Random.<br />
Huggable. <br />
Weird. <br />
Single. <br />
Pathetic. <br />
Outgoing. <br />
Insecure. <br />
Curious.<br />
A Freak. <br />
Music Lover. <br />
Crappy first impression. <br />
Expects to much of people.<br />
Dutch, but living in Switzerland o_O <br />
<font color="red">Loves</font> Gigs, my mates, goofiness, Hello Kitty, Spongebob, dog tags, wrist bands, hugs, hot chocolate, photography, art, vampire knight and music. <br />
<font color="red">Hates</font> hwk, having no credit on ur phone, having to say goodbye all the time, fakes, people that judge you yet don't know who the fuck you are, and haters.<br />
<font color="red">Lets Talk =]</font>
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